My bosses, Kiyomi and Yukina, were excited after a company drinking party. Since we live nearby, we decided to hold the after-party at my house. As we drank more, the two of us started talking about increasingly risqué topics… “I get shivers when someone chokes me,” “You know, for me…” We engaged in frank conversations that you’d never hear at work. As we talked, both of our faces started to flush, creating an awkward atmosphere.